Home-love // 21st Aug
One of the back-post that I haven't published out but in need to post it out to appreciate boyfriend's mum for all the little things that she has done for me. Simple things like "Come over for dinner tonight! I cooked all your favourite food!" to "Its okay! I buy this for you as long you guai guai and stay happy with Zhi wei!" And sometime, a whatapps voice message from her would start off my day with a happy note.
I always believe that all Mums are the same. As long they went through 9 months of carrying a big bump on themselves around, the love and affection that they gave to their kids will also be identical. Some parents have different ways of nurturing their child, either beat them whenever they have done something wrong or some used the soft-method to carry out discipline. But in such cases, I know boyfriend's mum uses the soft method to handle her own child and till now, in return she received something good. All her daughters and son stayed filial towards her.
From my mum's side, I can also tell that he dotes Zhiwei alot but the doting method is different from what Zhiwei's mum gave to me. My Mum doesn't express well to her own kids. I have grown up with a stern mum who uses cane to whack me or a rubber band to shoot me whenever I done something wrong. But until a certain age ( 7 years old), I was given freedom from her because she trusts that I can learn to be independent. I don't blame her for being stern to me instead being so thankful to her for all the trusts.
I really feel that I am one of the fortunate girl out there to received both Mum's love and I couldn't stop thinking of rewarding both of them with something that they deserved. As work stopped me from spending a full time with them, I only beg for weekend or holidays to come to compensate. I really need my HOLIDAYS to bring mum for a getaway trip!!
Just wanna shout out "Ï LOVE YOU LEE MUMMY AND TEE MUMMY! for loving who I am!
Back to my own track. So last Thursday, Aunty Jojo asked me over for dinner as it was BF's off day! I was shocked on the number of dishes that she whipped up within a short period of time. Most of the food are my favorite one. Set aside that, Bf's uncle and his wife came over to join us after their work. It was such a joyful dinner with them!
Always love having family dinner (:
Till then.
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